I’ve compiled a list of very common — and very understandable — mistakes that couples make to help you prevent this unnecessary pain and get the resources you need sooner. Whether it’s an issue of low or lack of sexual desire, or lack of passion in the bedroom after decades together, the resources to support you are a free consultation away.
Read MoreGreat sex doesn’t “just” happen in a long-term relationship. It’s fed, nourished and ignited by conversations about sex that make you feel desired and important to each other. These 7 habits show you what healthy couples do to have great sex.
Read MoreWhy can some sexless marriages be saved and why others cannot? What is the difference? Read this article to find out the key element that turns one sex problem into a disaster or a recipe for closeness and passionate sex.
Read MoreWe wrongly think that we know our partners, even though our knowledge comes from our own assumptions. To truly understand each other — and feel understood — we need to talk. This article provides tools to help you hone in on important insights about your partner that will help you connect more intimately, build closer sexual connection and make sex that’s more than just the same-old boring motions.
Read MoreWhen the relationship is struggling over the “sexual desire gap” problem, couples will naturally want to talk it over, telling each other what they think, under the guise of “telling the truth.” This actually harms your relationship. Find out how — and what to do instead.
Read MoreCouples who come to me for sex & intimacy coaching have often been to 3 to 5 therapists before me. Why did their couples therapy fail? Find out three reasons why couples therapy fails to address sexless marriages.
There’s a way that couples manage sexual challenges in their relationship that they believe will serve them. Instead, they backfire and hurt their love. Read this article to find out these three thought patterns that backfire — and what to do intead.
Read MoreIt takes many things to build up women’s libido but it takes one swing of the wrecking ball to destroy it. Yet we do this every day. Find out the biggest threat to women wanting and enjoying sex in a long-term relationship.
Read MoreA new calendar year offers an opportunity and a promise of a reset. Use these 3 powerful resolutions to create an extraordinary relationship in love & sex and beyond.
Read MoreThere is one thing a woman needs to have a healthy sex life. And it’s not what you think. Read the article and get 5 ways to have it.
Read MoreWhen Netflix released “Sex, Love & goop,” I thought … there’s no way they’re going to hit the spot on the touchy subject of women’s pleasure. But after watching the show end to end, I can confidently say — they get it right.
Read MoreLow libido affects as many as 50% of all women, yet having this label gets us even more stuck. In reality, there are 29 “faces” of low libido in women that point to the very things that we can change to find your way back to sexual desire. Read the article to identify yours — and get the path to rebuilding your spark.
Read MorePainful sex is the norm for many women. But what is really causing this phenomenon?
Read MoreAs many as 1 in 2 women in the US struggle with low libido. It’s time that we look at what is actually going on with these “sexually broken” women.
Read MoreIt’s a known phenomenon: sex seems to be better on vacation — more fun, easier, flowing. But it’s hard to maintain the magic when you get home. Learn five ways to bring home the vacation-sex effect into everyday life.
Read MoreTrying to get in the mood for sex at the end of a busy day can send a woman into a tailspin. Here is a mindset (plus three easy alternatives) that will help.
Read MoreScheduling sex is another example of advice offered to couples who are struggling with their sexual desires in long-term relationships. Yet, it’s really bad advice because it hurts your relationship.
Read MoreHaving a date night is the most common advice out there for couples struggling with lack of sexual passion and desire in a long-term relationship. Find out why this advice backfires and what to do instead.
Read MoreLooking backwards, it’s predictable that sex will change in a long-term relationship. But it’s still the case that we become heart-broken that it happens to us. Find out the 15 ways that sex is different — and how to make it more connected, fun and passionate going forward.
Read MoreThese books are guaranteed to open your eyes, make you blush, and relax your body into pleasure.
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