Find out if there is hope for you in these three information-rich videos and get the tools to turn things around:

• Video 1 addresses what healthy sexual desire in a long-term relationship looks like for women

• Video 2 lays out the four (out of five) crucial factors that contribute to women’s sexual desire in a long-term relationship (and the ones that kill it too)

• Video 3 discusses the last and final factor that changes everything when it comes to rebuilding your desire for sex and provides the path forward to finding yours

This free course is for you if …

• You look at your husband and he is always ready for sex. And you wonder, why aren’t you? You question if you are sexual “enough.”

• You feel frustrated and even ashamed by the fact that sexual desire doesn’t show up spontaneously for you.

• You find your husband attractive and yet, you don’t want to have sex with him.

• You expect yourself to be able to do it all, just like you do in so many areas in life, but it doesn’t seem to work with sex.

• You had kids and ever since … sex has been challenging.

• You feel resentment about having so many responsibilities, including managing your husband at home, and that turns you off by the time you get to bed.

• And with all of that, you put all this pressure on yourself to be able to desire sex on demand and beat yourself up when you don’t.

• You don’t know exactly why you don’t want to have sex with your husband. But you know you don’t — and you know that it’s a problem.

Getting Your Desire Back Should Not Require You to Change Who You Are

This video series was created for you with one goal in mind — to help you identify exactly the underlying reason why you don’t want to have sex with your husband and get it back in an authentic way that’s true to you.

When you lose your libido in a marriage, it can shake you to the core. All of my clients tell me this. You question yourself as a woman. You wonder if you’re good “enough.” You feel guilt for not being there. And, you feel a tremendous amount of pressure on your shoulders to fix it because it’s now affecting your marriage and the love of your life.

I know I felt it all when I lost my interest in sex in my marriage. I also felt that none of the advice and commonplace tips to “spice up your sex life,” masturbate more, fantasize more, or wear sexy lingerie felt authentic to me. In fact, they felt terrible.

If this sounds like you, you’re in the right place.

This video series is going to lay out the true reasons why you and your body do not want to have sex — and reveal what is going to authentically bring you back that spark.

This is not a one-size fits all approach that will force you to become someone you’re not. This unique approach fits your specific situation — and you will discover the answers that fit you, exactly how you are.

I’ve been married 20 years and this is the first I’ve ever heard about responsive vs spontaneous desire. I now know why I didn’t want to have sex. The videos helped me make a huge change in my life and Jack can’t thank you enough too!

Amelia

These videos are so eye opening. I am grateful for the videos, for you, and for you offering this for free. I already see shifts in my relationship because I am more aware of what I need to feel desire and what feels good to me. I am putting it into practice every day.

Rema

I so appreciate your videos!  I feel like I want to share this information with every woman I know. I’m 45 and have been married for 13 years and have two children. The only missing piece in our otherwise thriving marriage has been my desire to have sex. We tried so hard to make things work and we almost got to ending our relationship because we didn’t know how to get out of the dangerous downward spiral. When we watched the video together, we saw a new path and a future for us instead of an end. Thank you, thank you!

Pam

Expert on the female libido & sexual desire in a long-term relationship and trauma specialist, Irene Fehr helps heterosexual married couples make love and sex work over the long-term and bring sex and passion into sexless ones through customized 1:1 sex & intimacy coaching.

Determined to dispel myths about why sex dies in long-term monogamous relationships that cause heartache and broken dreams, Irene’s views on sex in long-term relationships have been featured all around the world in HuffPost, Cosmopolitan, Shape, Refinery29, ScaryMommy, EliteDaily and Bustle.

She is no stranger to her clients' issues, having recovered from the all-too-common story of ‘happy marriage turned sexless’ when she lost her libido — all before turning 30.

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