A unique approach for women in a long-term relationship
who struggle to want sex: 

Learn the proven method that can help you overcome your “I don’t want to have sex with my husband” problem 

and prevent never-ending arguments about having sex
from ruining what is otherwise a great relationship

(Without opening up your relationship, buying new sex toys, or changing who you are)

You have the potential to create a beautiful and deeply fulfilling sex life with your partner. Find out what it takes to clear the hurdles and solve this once and for all.”

Irene Fehr

Find out if there is hope for you in these videos:

  • Video 1 will help you establish if your relationship is safe enough to solve this sex problem.

  • Video 2 helps you find out if you’re stuck in the BIG GAP and what that means for you.

  • Video 3 will uncover the secret ingredient to wanting sex.

  • Video 4 will address why healthy women with good husbands will never want more sex by focusing on this one faulty strategy — and reveal Irene’s proven system to solve this problem once and for all.

 

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This free course is for you if …

  • You look at your husband and he is always ready for sex. Why aren’t you? You question if you are sexual enough.

  • You feel frustrated and even ashamed by the fact that sexual desire doesn’t show up spontaneously for you.

  • You find your husband attractive and yet, you don’t want to have sex with him.

  • You expect yourself to be able to do it all, just like you do in so many areas in life, but it doesn’t seem to work with sex.

  • You had kids and ever since … sex has been challenging.

  • You feel resentment about having so many responsibilities, including managing your husband at home, and that turns you off by the time you get to bed.

  • And with all of that, you put all this pressure on yourself to be able to desire sex on demand and beat yourself up when you don’t.

  • You don’t know exactly why you don’t want to have sex with your husband. But you know you don’t. And you know that it’s a problem.

About Irene Fehr, MA, CPCC, SEP

Expert on the female libido & sexual desire, Irene Fehr is known for honest portrayals of her journey from sexless marriage to sexual fulfillment. As a certified coach and trauma specialist, Irene leads women & couples on transformational journeys to bring back passion, pleasure and connection in sex.

Writer for the Huffington Post, Scary Mommy, Cosmopolitan, Shape, ThoughtCatalog and YourTango, Irene is a frequently-quoted expert on sex and intimacy for EliteDaily and Bustle. She works remotely with clients worldwide. 

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What if you’ve been lied to about sex and desire?

This free course was created for you with one goal in mind — to help you identify exactly the underlying reason why you don’t want to have sex with your husband. 

Maybe you led yourself to believe that something is fundamentally wrong with you sexually. So you resolved to solve this directly with doctors, books, using more lube or trying to masturbate more. And none of these common solutions fixed your problem. 

Maybe you may have thought that your husband is obsessed with sex and that his unquenchable sexual desire is the root of the problem to begin with. How often do we think as women that if only he would change, our problems would go away? But men don’t change, and our problems don’t go away either. 

Maybe you keep on fighting about the same thing and you're confused as to why you cannot figure this out together when the rest of the relationship is so good. Could there be something wrong about you, you wonder? You keep looking for a reason to explain why you don’t want to have sex with the man you love and cherish.

Nothing makes sense. It is frustrating and discouraging too. 

You feel like you are disappointing yourself and everyone around you, so you carry the responsibility to fix the situation on your shoulders. And what options are available to you? 

  • You feel the pressure of finding the answer, when you can’t even identify the problem as to why you don’t want to have sex.

  • You feel the pressure to become something that you are not — and that road feels daunting. 

  • You are cornered into taking responsibility for being sexually broken — when deep inside you know that you’re not. 

This is frustrating! 

I am so sorry that you’ve felt so lost trying to figure out the reasons for your problem. I am so sorry that it’s been this painful.

I am here to tell you what I wished I had heard many years ago … before the end of my sexless marriage because I had lost my sexual desire. I want you to know because you shouldn’t suffer from all this pain.

This free course will help you finally determine the true reason why you and your body do not want to have sex. And by figuring this out, you will breathe a sigh of relief, I promise.

This is not a one-size fits all approach that will force you to become someone you’re not. This unique approach fits your specific situation — and you will discover the answers that fit you, exactly how you are.

It’s yours by signing up to this short free video course.

 
 
 

After taking this free course, these women said …

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I’ve been married 20 years and this is the first I’ve ever heard about responsive vs spontaneous desire. I now know why I didn’t want to have sex. The videos helped me make a huge change in my life and Jack can’t thank you enough too!

Amelia

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These videos are so eye opening. I am grateful for the videos, for you, and for you offering this for free. I already see shifts in my desire by being aware of the NAS Paradox and putting it into practice every day.

Rema

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I so appreciate your videos!  I feel like I want to share this information with every woman I know. I’m 37 and have been married for 13 years and have two children. The only missing piece in our otherwise thriving marriage has been my desire to have sex. We tried so hard to make things work and we almost got to ending our relationship because we didn’t know how to get out of the dangerous downward spiral. We see a new path and a future for us instead of an end. Thank you, thank you!

Pam

 
 
 

ENROLL INTO THE FREE COURSE:
HOW TO OVERCOME THE “I DON’T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY HUSBAND” PROBLEM

LAUNCHING SOON

Join the waiting list & get this free video series as soon as it launches!